One way is to give money and make a big show. That is not my way of doing. I am of the Quaker belief, and although the Quakers are about all dead, I still follow their example. An ordinary gift to be bragged about is not a gift in the eyes of the lord. Hetty Howland Robinson Green
On giving money away. Hetty, Charles Slack, 2004. (1834-1916), p190